Exploring the Rightful Recipient of the Birthday Gift

Syracuse, NY — A few weeks ago, I was perusing Carousel Center and found myself at Borders.  After picking up a copy of J.M. Barrie’s Peter Pan, a display of The Perks of Being a Wallflower caught my eye.  I had some time on my hands, so I put on my new reading glasses (med school is complicating my focusing abilities) and read the novel, start to finish.

Stephen Chbosky’s The Perks of Being a Wallflower is told from the perspective of a high school freshman named Charlie, presented through a series of letters addressed to an anonymous friend.   I found the book to be a fairly melodramatic outlook on adolescence yet at one instance, Charlie raised an interesting notion:

I love my mom so much.  I don’t care if that’s corny to say.  I think on my next birthday, I’m going to buy her a present.  I think that should be the tradition.  The kid gets gifts from everybody, and he buys one present for his mom since she was there, too.  I think that would be nice (p. 189).

On a birthday, there is never an uncertainty to whom the gifts should be given.  Before reading this book, I had never considered the philosophy behind the birthday.   Doesn’t it make sense to give recognition to the individual responsible for the it?  It may be a moot point, but next year I plan on thanking my mom with a present on my birthday.

In the spirit of SomeEcards:

- littleladie

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One Response to Exploring the Rightful Recipient of the Birthday Gift

  1. On a random tangent, The Perks of Being a Wallflower is one of the most banned/challenged books in libraries. I’m glad it keeps drawing readers in, despite the efforts of the small-minded.

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